On the Upswing

Well its been a while since i last wrote. That is something that i didn't want to happen. So for all 3 of you that read this blog, I apologize. But i have had the week from hell last week, and an amazing and busy weekend.

Last week I was in Omaha Nebraska. Let me be the first to tell you to NEVER go there, unless you like to look at miles of corn and other miscellaneous crops. The fact that there was no Starbucks or a mall wasn't the reason that it was hell though. It was because that week i must have worked close to 80 hours and that i was stuck working with a gay hater that felt the need to use the word fag/faggot/queer in every other sentence. So needless to say it wasn't the most positive week of my life. However, through that whole experience it has let me know that I cannot continue to work for this company. Working with this guy was the icing on the cake and therefore have decided to look for another job...in Pittsburgh. I decided against taking the job in DC and am going to focus my time and efforts on starting a life here in Pittsburgh. So I thank that gay hater who I spent 80 hours with for making that decision a lot easier.

This past weekend following the week from hell, turned out to be a well needed great time. I met up with "the boy" and his friends in Cleveland to go see a DJ called John Digweed. We spent all weekend there, and "the boy" and I had a some well needed time together. We hadn't seen each other for two weeks, and we couldn't wait to see one another. We decided to put a label on our relationship, so sorry boys, but I am no longer single. You had your chance, but I picked a winner. And a winner he is. He is great and I cant wait to see where this relationship takes us. Since I am in the dreaded Cleveland for the rest of the week for work he is coming to visit me on Thursday and so it definitely gives me something to look forward to in a few days.

As I sit here now, in a semi-decent hotel with a huge king bed, alone, and feeling somewhat depressed, I have a bright outlook as to what the near future holds for me. I will hopefully find another company to work for and continue to progress the relationship with my new boyfriend. Its actually weird to say my boyfriend since i haven't said those words without the "ex" part in front of them for quite some time. But I look forward to the familiarity of being in the relationship. It is where I feel most comfortable and most happy.