Thursday, February 26, 2009

2 More Days

Well the time is almost here for the big move into my new place, which starts a new journey for the bf and I. I have been feeling sort of at odds though as of late, now that it is my reality. I see couples finally take the big step and move in with each other thinking that they are going to spend the rest of their lives with one another, but then, they learn they cant stand to live with each other so then a murder-suicide case happens. I am just a little worried now that that will happen to us. Now the killing part, but I just hope we dont end up like alot of other cohabiting couples. However, I know that their are plenty of others who take that leap and make it just fine.

We start moving tomorrow, taking what boxes we can fit in our cars, just to get a head start for Saturday. I have been packing boxes all week, filling them with dishes, clothes, degrees and diplomas. But as much as I have been packing, I have been throwing away just as much. I am trying to rid myself of all things I haven't touched with the past year. I hate throwing things away, and I tend to keep everything. When I throw something away, I feel it is just so final. But I know I need to part with some things, as they are part of a life no longer lived. And I am slowly becoming accustomed to that.

On top of the stress that is coming along with all of that, I am having a series of bad luck regarding some of my new purchases. My new tv, well yeah, I hate it. Why? Because two nights ago it died. I was watching the Presidential address then all of a sudden it went black. I could hear the sound but no picture. I tried everything to make it work again, but no luck. I wouldve returned it but no one has it in stock. Gag. So a repairman is coming to fix it next week. On top of that, you know that new car I bought. Yeah. It sucks too. My heater stop working. I dont know why, but it did. So now I have to get that fixed next week.

And on top of that, work has been extremely stressful and busy for me. This post has taken me 3 hours to write because I cant seem to find time to finish it. So I am going to now. Peace be with you.

Monday, February 23, 2009


So these guys who have a morning talk show on Pittsburgh's Top 40 station made a rap video for the Snuggie and I sort of love it!

Almost Done

The bf and I spent this weekend shopping for our new furniture for our apt which we move into on Saturday. We decided on a nice sectional couch along with a modern area rug. The sofa tables caused a little argument but i think I am going to get my way when we finally order them next week. I also made a purchase that i didnt expect to make for several months. After researching flat screen TVs forever now, I stumbled upon one that had a price tag I couldnt refuse. How could someone say No to a 47inch 1080p LCD HDTV for $850!? Thats right. No one can. Its huge, its beautiful, it is going to make my porno videos seem like the boys are fucking in my very own living room.

Its going to be a very long week counting down to moving out. I have tons of pre packing to do, and I am going to have several garbage bags full of stuff I need to part with. I am ready to move out, move in, and enjoy my new home!

New Pet Shop Boys

Loves it!

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

On Repeat

Something to Make You Smile

I Completely Agree

You Are An ENTJ

The Executive

You are a natural leader - with confidence and strength that inspires others.

Driven to succeed, you are always looking for ways to gain, power, knowledge, and expertise.

Sometimes you aren't the most considerate person, especially to those who are a bit slow.

You are not easily intimidated - and you have a commanding, awe-inspiring presence.

In love, you hold high standards... for yourself, for your relationship, and for your significant other.

While it's easy for you to impress others, it's hard for you to find someone who impresses you.

At work, you are organized and good at delegating. You understand how to achieve goals.

You would make a great CEO, entrepreneur, or consultant.

How you see yourself: Rational, calm, and objective

When other people don't get you, they see you as: Inflexible, controlling, and overbearing

Found It!

On Monday I said that i was going to view some more apartments that the bf made appointments to see. Well turns out one of those places is going to be our new home for at least a year. We got an awesome deal on the loft so we couldn't pass it up. It is in an old school building conveniently called the School House Lofts. It is only 1/2 mile from my house and only 2 blocks away from the huge park that overlooks the city.We move in March 6Th which I simply cannot wait for. To tell you about the place, its is a loft so two floors with the top floor only having my room there. On the first floor is another bedroom, kitchen, bathroom, and 3 or 4 huge windows overlooking the northside of Pittsburgh and the top of the skyscrapers downtown. Someone was still living in the apartment when we went to look at it which was a little odd, so I didn't get any pictures but the one below is from their brochure thingy so just picture it without the gaudy 80s furniture.We go furniture shopping this weekend to buy living room furniture which I am very excited about. The bf is going to purchase the couch and coffee table and I will be purchased a flat screen TV sometime soon. So yeah. I'm happy!

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Just Plain Scary


A man was shot one block away from my house this morning at 10am. Its crazy that these gangsters are now taking out their foes in broad daylight now and at a McDonald's parking lot no less. It seems as though gangs have been prospering throughout Pittsburgh lately. And sadly enough, they are no longer staying in their drug ridden ghettos. They seem to infiltrating the areas that Pittsburgh is trying to clean up and where families and children live. I wish we could just give these assholes an island where they can all live and kill eachother.

Scary/Freaking Awesome

Watch this is Full Screen!

Monday, February 16, 2009

Apartment Hunting

I have been on the lookout for a new apartment now for quite some time, and I have to say that this experience has not been fun. It seems as though my boyfriend and I have different opinions on what is livable and what isnt. Because I spend a lot of time in the kitchen cooking meals for my man, I require a nice large kitchen. I would prefer nice countertops, newer appliances, and large amounts of cabinet space. I tend to be picky when it comes to my living quarters because i will in fact live there, sleep there, fuck there, and bathe there. So I want it to be clean and cute.

The bf and I have decided what we can both afford so that we can save money and in a year or two buy a house. But I feel we have allocated enough money for a monthly payment that will allow us to live in something nice. Not something spectacular, but something nice possibly something even with granite countertops in the kitchen. But we seem to be running into duds. Pittsburgh is a very old city, so most of the housing around the city is very old and not exactly updated. So that is what we are running into. It also doesnt help that the location I want to live in is not exactly the safest area, but it is close to every major highway and downtown.

All of these factors have led this apt hunt to be very stressful. If I tend to like something, the bf doesnt, and vice versa. I just dont want to settle on a dingy apartment when I know the right one is out there. We are looking at more apartments today and I have put in a few inquiries with people who are tyring to rent out there apartments, so hopefully I will find something soon.

Friday, February 13, 2009

Crazy People

Crazy people live in my apt building. Well, one to be exact. There is a couple that lives upstairs from mine, and lets just say they have some relationship issues. As the girlfriend put it, "We are getting married, but I know we are going to get a divorce."

Straight people. I know.

She said that to me knowing very well that i am not even allowed to marry the person I love. But whatever. So anyways, the time is roughly 11:45 at last night and I am laying in bed trying to sleep when I hear a loud banging on our door and the fiance of this girl who already knows she is going to get a divorce from a marriage that hasnt even happened yet is shouting for her to get her ass down stairs.

Now let me preface this story by letting you know that this isnt really new. They usually get into a fight, she comes into our apartment and hides in my roommates bedroom while he bangs on our door. So this is happening once again. She is upstairs and he is bangin our door down screaming about burning the apartment down, killing her cat, and destroying her computer. Sounds like a real keeper hunh?

Another side story, this is the same guy who sent me messages via Facebook telling me I was unclassy because I wrote a post on my blog about my roommate not paying bills just one week ago. Talk about being a hypocrite.

So, after about 30 minutes of this going on I start screaming at him that he better stop or I am going to call the cops. So he stops for maybe 10 minutes than starts back up again. So I do what i said I was going to do and called the cops. I explain to them that there is a domestic disturbance at my apartment and a crazy tenant is banging on our door and screaming so that everyone else lives in our apartment building can hear him. Classy, right?

The cops arrive and go and talk to the crazy guy upstairs. The time now is probably 1am or so, and you all can imagine how thrilled I am to be dealing with this. The cops leave, and I am thinking everything is over. I was apparently wrong. He screamed in the hall again that he was leaving shortly after the cops left, so that the whole apartment can hear and about 1 minute later returns and lets the apartment know that he lied and he is going to stay, cause you know, we all care.

Around 2am, I am sound asleep after dealing with this trash for the past 2 hours, and can you believe he is once again banging on our door screaming! I literally jumped out of my bed when he started again. I seriously couldnt believe it. Some people just dont know when to walk away back to the trailer park. He threatens to break our doors down if we dont open them, at which point I plug my ears with my fingers and attempt to block the pounding and screaming. He does eventually go away, thank god, and allows all the tenants of our building to fall back asleep.

This guy is obviously oozing class and maturity right? He apparently took a lesson in Class 101.

I hope the girlfriend finally breaks up with this guy and gets him out of our apartment buildings life. I honestly am still shocked that someone lacks the decency to know better than to pound on someone elses door in the middle of the night while screaming. Its unbelievable. I hope she kicks his ass out and he can go back to the trailer park where he probably came from so that I can go back to getting a good nights sleep.


Thursday, February 12, 2009


Since Valentines Day is is only 2 days away, I thought I should mention it. This year is going to be quite non-exciting for me and the bf. Because we are moving into a new place, we are trying not to waste money for the time being. Last year, we went to one of the finest restuarants in Pittsburgh and ate one of the most amzing and expensive meals I have ever had. After our $200 meal, we celebrated by rubbing our man parts together. It was fun.

This year, it is going to be much more low key. No elaborate 5 course meal dinners or anything. Instead, we are going to the Pittsburgh International Auto Show with another couple and then we are gonna go have a quaint dinner at a cute little Thai restaurant.

What r you readers doign for valentines day? Anything?

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Monday, February 9, 2009

The Homosexual Agenda

Will all readers please go to and fill out the survey and if you have time watch the absolutly ridiculous video they have created.

Thank ya!

Remember Him?

Remember the story about the friend I once had who tried to make out with me on the day his boyfriend was celebrating his birthday? You know this story.

Ok, now that you have refreshed your memory, there has been a little update to this...mishap. Last weekend I ran into this person at a club that I frequent every Saturday. This was the first time I had seen or talked to this person since that incident happened so many months ago. And for me, i was actually somewhat happy to see him. He used to be a good friend of mine, and even though we had a falling out, I still sort of missed the guy. Nonetheless, I told him it was good to see him, and that I was happy things were going ok in his life. It was an overall good conversation. He apologized to both my boyfriend and myself for what he attempted to do and it seemed like he was sincere with his apology. Oddly enough, I was even considering allowing him back into my life because he made a mistake and I thought he was genuinely sorry for what he did.

Wrong. A big fat wrong.

Jump forward to this weekend now. Once again I ran into him and immediately gave him a hug. He didnt however have the same welcoming look he had on his face from one week before. He jumped into a lecture type style of speech, explaining to me that I basically made the whole incident thing up in my head. That he never intended on making out with me or anything like that. He was simply trying to give a kiss goodbye and it was one huge misunderstanding and I had my opinion of what happened and it wasnt the right one.

And I stood there, mouth agape at what he was saying. Was here seriously trying to tell me that friends go and rub each others penises and pull each other in towards each other for a kiss on the cheek. Umm, no. If he knew there was just a big misunderstanding, why would he call me right after he tried to make out with me to apologize for what happened. And then called me the next day to again apologize, and not to tell his then boyfriend. Or why did he once again apologize to me just one week ago and then go and apologize to my boyfriend. I guess he was apologizing for me being an idiot and thinking he was going to try to make out with me when he was just going in for a nice warm hug.


Instead of this guy just owning up to his mistake, he is now trying to convince himself that it never happened. That I really did blow the whole thing out of proportion and that i made the whole thing up. Because that just totally makes sense.

So after all this bullshit, I am a little upset with myself for almost wanting this person back in my life. Usually once I cut you out of my life, it is for good. I almost always trust my first instinct. But something about his now bullshit apology seemed to ring true with me. He seemed so sincere about wanting to make things right. Luckily, he never had the opportunity to re-enter my life.

But maybe I am wrong about this whole situation and perhaps he is in fact right. Maybe the gays have taken the hello/goodbye kiss to the next level. No longer is the kiss on the cheek or quick peck on the lips acceptable. Maybe I missed the memo that now we give each other a quick blowjob and make out for a few minutes when saying goodbye. I will admit it would make us all more comfortable with each other, but this is going to be time consuming people! Can you imagine trying to leave a party or a dance club. Everyone's mouths would be so tired.

And because he does in fact read my blog, I am sure Ill get a text ro something telling me to take down this post, or to tell me I am still full of shit or a horrible person. So no one be afraid to tell him how you feel in the comments.

Friday, February 6, 2009

OMG Run! He's Making Your Window Treatments Fabulous

Funny Saying of the Day

"God created the rainbow so I could catwalk to heaven."

Work it all the way to those golden gates boys!

Thursday, February 5, 2009

Please Don't Divorce Us

Here is a video created for the Courage Campaign which is trying to revoke Prop 8. Watch this video, and dont be surprised if your eyes get a little teary like mine did.

"Fidelity": Don't Divorce... from Courage Campaign on Vimeo.

25 Things About Me

Because I have been tagged roughly 30 gazillion times on facebook to do the 25 Things About Me thingy, I have finally decided to do it in hoped people stop tagging me in their note. Drum roll please.

1. I have 4 brothers and 4 sisters. I am the only gay as far as I know.

2. I have only met my biological father once. It is my earliest memory at the age of 1.

3. I have had roughly 15 dogs, 2 chickens, 3 horses, 1 pig, 100s of fish, several hamsters, 5 cats, 1 chinchilla, and 2 turtles.

4. I have only been out of the United States once which was during a cruise.

5. I was 21 when I first flew on a plane.

6. My mom was the MILF of my high school. I hated that.

7. I have been diagnosed with Restless Leg Syndrome, Grave's Disease, and Thyroid cancer.

8. I have owned 4 cars since I was 16. A 1985 Buick Century, 1993 Jeep Cherokee Laredo, 2006 Scion TC, and a 2006 Audi A3.

9. I won Homecoming King my senior year in high school.

10. I didnt realize I was gay until I was 17.

11. I grew up wanting to be a comedian. Instead of people thinking I am funny, they now just think i am weird.

12. I truly think I am the weirdest person I know.

13. I have never had a broken bone.

14. I find chest hair extremely sexy.

15. Every job I have had post high school graduation has been for a Fortune 500 company.

16. I love techno, trance, and pop music.

17. I cant seem to ever be satisfied with anything in my life.

18. I used to think my Mom was the most beautiful woman I have ever seen.

19. I have only had 3 boyfriends.

20. I am deeply afraid of heights, yet I love roller coasters, bungee jumping, and cant wait to sky dive.

21. I would like to have 3 kids. 2 boys and a girl.

22. I have extreme self image issues.

23. Despite knowing money doesnt bring happiness, I still want lots of it.

24. I love to watch sunrises and sunsets.

25. I have constant dreams of all of my teeth falling out into my hands. Still frightens me intensely.

Wednesday, February 4, 2009


This was a video I stumbled upon shwoing a little kid who just got out of the dentist's office and is still a little woozy from some of the medicine they gave him. Watch!

This video just made me smile. I am sure you will too.

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Regarding the Car...

I bought it!!!!!!!!!

Once I get in the mood, Ill take some pictures of my new baby!

Sunday, February 1, 2009


The Steelers won the Superbowl tonight during an intense and nail biting game. It was just how the Superbowl should be. I couldnt have asked for a better time. I had my closest friends around me as we all watched the Steelers win more Superbowls than any other team in the USA. We toasted with champagne after the victory and went outside for some victory screaming as well as listened to the fireworks and screams of people all around the city. It was quite a moment.

Not only am I excited that the Steelers won, but i am also excited because I may be buying a new car tomorrow. This was something completely unexpected, but driving past a car dealership on Friday, I found a car I must have. As long as they give me the car for the price i am going to offer them, as well as give me the price for my car that i want, I should be driving home with a new car tomorrow evening. And just in case you are curious as to what it is. Just take a look...

Superbowl Sunday

Here we go Steelers!!

I am throwing a large Superbowl party at my house today, and finally just got done cleaning. Now its time to start making food for the 15 or so people who will be joining me to watch the Pittsburgh Steelers kick some Cardinals ass! Can't wait for the game!