tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4505505821943010103.post8354445753865296732..comments2023-08-24T04:48:50.709-04:00Comments on Circle in a World of Squares: Down in the DumpersJBGBChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12742262037883851997noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4505505821943010103.post-39622543231517941292008-02-07T16:05:00.000-05:002008-02-07T16:05:00.000-05:00Circle baby you do seem more clingy than Saran Wra...Circle baby you do seem more clingy than Saran Wrap! Your depressive mindset also isnt helping things much either. Just don't get hurt ok? I live nearby in Penna and we have enough bad vibes already here. Hugs.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4505505821943010103.post-18762601123174297402008-01-27T15:38:00.000-05:002008-01-27T15:38:00.000-05:00You sound clingy. That's not a good thing if you ...You sound clingy. That's not a good thing if you want this to last. Step back, look at the relationship and determine if it's where you think it should be. And sex shouldn't be the first thing on your mind in a relationship. If it is, you've got problems.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4505505821943010103.post-47513174629575240642008-01-25T22:50:00.000-05:002008-01-25T22:50:00.000-05:00I can't remember how long you and your bf have bee...I can't remember how long you and your bf have been together. I've read in a number of places that it takes anywhere from six months to two years before couples break past all of the projection and infatuation that goes on in the early phase of a relationship. you don't even start to truly get to know the person until that point because you're finally seeing them as them. an typically there's a sense of let down, or exclamations of "what went wrong?" or anger and resentment that this person wasn't who you thought.<BR/><BR/>maybe you guys are further down the pathway that this, but it seems from my read through that you might not be, based on how you describe your emotional lives together.m00nchildhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14191307528534833916noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4505505821943010103.post-19155355096447570812008-01-25T15:38:00.000-05:002008-01-25T15:38:00.000-05:00Hey--I am orig. from Pgh., and was interested in y...Hey--<BR/><BR/>I am orig. from Pgh., and was interested in your blog. <BR/><BR/>Relationships are difficult, and don't let anyone tell you differently. As I celebrated 14yrs earlier this mo., I can attest that they are not always fun. Ours has required a lot of compromise. People think that compromise is acheived when both parties are happy. In actuality, compromise means that neither party is ever completely satisfied. <BR/><BR/>To boot, I think that gay relationships have added burdens. They are not celebrated and valued by many folks in the community. We cannot "formalize" the relationship thru marriage. Further, there is no word in English, that embodies the partner (wife, husband, fiance, etc.)! If gay relationships were valued, we would have a name for it. <BR/><BR/>Somtimes our families are not supportive of our relationships, for various reasons.<BR/><BR/>Some gay folks also do not value relationships either. They work on sabotaging your relationship, as well as their own.<BR/><BR/>What I am saying is, please value and consider your relationship. Give careful thought to its value and viability. If it has lost its value--move on. But if there is something worth saving, work on it. <BR/><BR/>If I may offer advice, consider counseling. Try to figure out what it is that you ar elooking for, and learn how to communicate that to your bf. If you do not know what you want, there is no way that he (or anyone) will be able to give it to you! Hang in there. BryAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com